I want to link you to a talk that I read, oh … probably 10 years ago. What a blessing it was to me. It gave me such clarity and absolutely influenced the way I dated then, and the way I value my marriage now. It is written by a BYU-Idaho professor named Bruce Satterfield. All of his writings are good. But this one made impact with me. I hope it does for you as well.
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